Any woman (or man) who expresses “100% appropriate fury” in response to a “rape joke” (which is an oxymoron that cannot exist) would be understood (at least in my white male, privileged, politically conservative, not to mention Christian, world) to be reacting in a perfectly understandable and appropriate manner. Her (or his) gender or other attributes would have no bearing on the reaction or the reaction to the reaction (see how nominalism becomes stale fast?). Her (or his) character (or lack thereof) would determine the appropriateness and acceptability of such a response. If we are but the sum of our accidental attributes, we cannot be autonomous moral actors.